Makeup

Yes or No

   Make-up is expensive when you wear it everyday and don't have a job. Lately, I have decided I don't need it unless I'm going out and either meeting new people or coming into contact with a lot of people who don't know me personally. This saves me and the hubby money, probably about $20 every month or two. 

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   According to The Science of Sex Appeal, a documentary about the facts behind physical attraction, one's attractiveness is unconsciously based upon the golden ratio and symmetry. The closer your facial features fit to the golden ratio (for more, go here) and are symmetrical, the more attractive you are to other human beings. So, if used correctly, make-up can make people more attractive - if it's used to bring one's features closer to this ratio (which, if you watch the documentary, is totally legit, or so it seems) and appear more symmetrical. And thus, some people need make-up to look and feel attractive, and others do not. Make-up gives those of us who have less natural beauty that extra boost to try and meet up with our more beautiful human counterparts. It evens the playing field, so to speak. 

   So, some of us need make-up to look and feel beautiful, while others don't. That's why we have those who are totally against make-up (probably those who are pretty enough naturally not to need it, or not pretty enough to be helped by it at all) and then those who are totally for it, and then those of us that just wear it to boost our confidence or fit in. 

   Personally, I wear as little as no make-up most days, only mascara on others, just eye-liner, brow definer, and mascara sometimes, and make up my face fully with foundation and the works (though I try and keep it subtle, like I believe it should be) on rare occasions. It depends on where I'm going, who I'm meeting, and a variety of other factors as to how much make-up I wear and what kinds of it. 

   But I want to know about you. Do you wear make-up ever, on occasion, or have other habits or opinions you'd like to share? What do you think about make-up and the people who wear it? How old should a young girl be before she's introduced to make-up and how to use it correctly?

Anxious Neat Freak

Is It Bad to Be a Neat Freak?

     As I was watching one of my favorite shows this morning, I realized that maybe Danny Tanner wasn't as crazy as he was supposed to be on Full House. Though I'm sure the dad of the Tanner household was supposed to seem Obsessive Compulsive sometimes, probably meant to be a part of his anticipated Post Traumatic Stress from losing his wife to a fatal car accident and being left to raise three young daughters all on his own, I've suddenly realized from watching the episode I did today that Danny wasn't just trying to fill a void in his life with his obsessive cleaning. Watch the clip below so you know what I'm talking about. 

     As you can tell from the above video, it does seem at times that Danny is obsessed with cleaning. But as the character says so himself, he's always been a neat freak, and it has nothing to do with him being a single dad or PTSD. Danny Tanner may have been a little crazy at times, but his cleaning was embedded in his genes. And though he was a fictional television character, we can learn from his example.

     Now don't get me wrong - being a neat freak isn't for everyone. But some need a clean environment for their mental health. A clean living environment reduces stress, and when over-stressed, as I'm sure Danny was at times, it's natural to look for ways to reduce the anxiety. So when Danny's in Karen's apartment after their wonderful date and he finds that her apartment is a pig sty, the stress of the situation, of finding that he's once again dating and unsure of everything, causes him to need to clean. Sure, it's a little embarrassing and creepy for Karen, but Danny finds he needs a clean environment and making that happen reduces his stress.

     What can we learn from Danny Tanner being a neat freak? Though his cleaning seems pretty obsessive sometimes, it's a little like biting nails or chewing gum, neither of which Danny did very often, if at all. Cleaning was his stress-reliever. It just happened to help reduce others' anxieties too, to live in a clean environment.

     I've noticed becoming a little less of a neat freak since I started taking my anti-anxiety medication. I've also reduced the frequency of how often I bite my nails, how often I get sick with colds and stomach viruses, and how often I have my evil hiccups. Reducing the amount of stress in one's life can have multiple positive effects. So cleaning and living in a clean environment in effect can have multiple benefits for you and your family. Being obsessed with cleaning is just a stress-reliever and an unconscious attempt to relieve anxiety. 

     What are your personal habits that you think help to relieve stress? Share in the comments and I'll let you know whether I think they are healthy or signs of an illness that needs attention.